I'm not unemployed anymore - I actually have a very fabulous job as a preschool teacher with the University of Michigan child care centers. But I'm still posting, albeit a little more irregularly, and I don't want to ignore the personal progress I've made since starting this blog by renaming it.

Blog inspiration: I read 48 States in 48 Days by Paul Jury in the summer of 2011. It was fabulous...although he planned way less for his roadtrip than I would have. And at the same time, my lovely Anna was constantly reminding me that our lives were awesome, despite the fact that we didn't have job prospects, new cars, boyfriends/husbands, houses, etc., like so many people we knew. So, in an effort to appreciate my life and the crazy uncertainty that it is, I started writing this blog about the little adventures I have. (And by "writing a blog," I mean "making a list" because I make lists, not narratives.) Even if there isn't a BIG adventure that happens every day, I try to find at least one thing to list :)

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Wedding Bells And Honeymoons

  • I had the cutest cab drivers last night and this morning: the both were amused when I told them (in Korean) that I don't speak Korean and then asked me (in Korean...I used context clues to actually figure out what they were saying) to say all the words/phrases that I know. It was so funny.
  • On my way home from the doctor's office, I experienced my first broken-down bus! There was something in front of the sensor of the exit door so it wouldn't close and was continuously beeping. The driver had to call another bus to come get us! It wasn't a big deal, because I wasn't in a hurry - just funny.
  • And tonight I got to go to a Korean wedding! It was the owner of the cafe where PIC's Heart of Music service is held, Ye Jin. I don't know her that well but she invited me to drop by if I had time. So I did! (Though I almost got lured to sleep by my bed...I need to stop seeing 5 a.m.) I knew at least one person who was going to be there, and several other people that I've met here ended up being there as well (the foreigner community isn't that big so everyone is kind of interconnected). I didn't get there on time (silly school) so I missed the ceremony, but I got to see the rest and here are my observations:

Similarities:
    • the bride wore a white dress
    • the groom wore a black suit
    • there was a wedding party, made up mostly of the bride and groom's siblings
    • mother-of-the-bride was dressed very nicely
    • people ate at tables, with chairs
    • the food was served buffet-style
    • the guests were a mix of ages, though with a lot of middle-aged people
    • there were lots of flowers

Differences:
    • guests put money in envelopes at the door as a kind of mandatory gift (...I may or may not have slipped past this step...)
    • the bride and groom changed out of the white dress/black suit and into traditional hanbok after the ceremony
    • then they participated in a traditional Korean ceremony (this was while everyone was seating so I didn't get the specifics), said some hellos (or anyeong-ha-sey-yos) and changed back
    • the family of the bride and groom, along with some people from their church were in charge of all the cooking, serving, set-changing, etc. (I've seen this in the US, but I don't think it's the norm)
    • the ceremony and reception were held in the bride's cafe and so eating tables were in the main area, on the upper floor and outside
    • most people left after eating
    • after dinner time, several guests gave performances for the bride and groom
    • there were no special dances, cake-cutting (no cake actually), bouquet-tossing, etc. - the simplicity was actually really nice
    • there wasn't any alcohol (though the punch had a special kick) and no dance party time
    • the reception ended at about 8 p.m.

I'm not sure whether the differences are Korean-based or simply Ye Jin's and her fiance's preferences. I'm going to another wedding in a couple weeks so I'll be able to compare!

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